For soon-to-marry couple Dominic Spence and Adult comedy movies - watch free 18+ funny adult moviesNick Gilyard, Instagram has become a place where together they show others what a young, black, queer relationship looks like.
SEE ALSO: 9 LGBT families that will diversify your Instagram feedTheir joint page, @dom_and_nick, recently had a moment when the Instagram account The Way We Met profiled the 27- and 25-year-olds, who live in Brooklyn. Their photo and story of growing up in South Florida and knowing each other for many years before dating became one of the most popular posts with 17,500 likes in the past week.
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The couple started their joint account last year because they both were "frustrated that many of the advertisements and gay love stories highlighted by both straight and LGBTQ-centric media rarely (if ever) showed images of gay black couples."
So they started posting their own photos and videos where they could "proudly and unapologetically showcase our black gay love all the time."
While couple accounts are definitely a thing on Instagram, it's still pretty rare to find black queer couples sharing a public profile. Some hashtags, message boards, and Instagram and Tumblr pages provide an outlet to showcase these complex relationships, but few are solely dedicated to one couple and their experience.
"The hope was always that showing our lives would inspire others (especially young queer people of color)," the duo wrote in an email.
The couple, a law clerk and a public relations senior associate, are marrying next month in Miami Beach. Earlier this year, they were featured in shaving company Bevel's Valentine's Day ad. They called the experience "empowering."
"We received so many messages from people who had seen the ads who told us how it actually made them cry to see two black gay men embracing each other in an ad for a black-owned company. So often we feel like there isn't a space to be both black and queer so to have Bevel embrace both parts of our identity was truly a special moment," the couple said.
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Another couple, Kordale Lewis and Kaleb Anthony, stepped into the spotlight several years ago to show what a family with two black dads looks like. They pioneered the way through a joint Instagram account to show what moments of fatherhood, family, and partnership are actually like, especially with a new baby in the family.
The couple shot up in fame when a photo of the couple doing their daughter's hair went viral back in 2014.
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From there they became a well-known Instagram presence and the whole family starred in a Nikon ad the next year. Later, in July 2015, Lewis and Anthony announced they were no longer together on Instagram. Their breakup played out all over social media as their fans learned of the news, showing that a joint account can have its drawbacks. The pair had to put everything out there, even their most difficult moment.
The two have since gotten back together and deleted their breakup posts. By Christmas 2015 they were posting family photos again and by the next April they were expecting a new baby. The couple didn't respond to interview requests.
Their account and others are curated to emphasize the beautiful, happy moments and don't always catch the disagreements and tears. But relationships can get messy and these profiles are about highlighting what makes a relationship worth it, even during the hardest times.
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Like Spence and Gilyard said, they wished they had more role models and relationships, like Lewis and Anthony, to look up to when they were younger. So now they want to "give people someone who looks like them, faces the same hardships and adversities, and not only overcomes them but finds a love that helps them do so."
Juan and Gee Smalls, a married couple in Atlanta, also share their professional and personal lives together on their joint Instagram. The couple, who married in 2009 in Connecticut, offer relationship, dating, and life coaching. Back in 2011 they wrote an advice column for a magazine which turned into a joint Facebook and Instagram page and blog. Now they help others with their relationships. They started The Gentleman's Foundation to celebrate gay men of color.
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In a phone call, Gee Smalls, 40, said he hopes something as simple as their Instagram posts help other gay people of color and "inspires them to keep hope up."
Even if Gee and Juan, 35, are using their social media profile for their coaching business, Gee said they keep it "transparent and real." He's been told couples got married because of their blog and social media presence. "It's been a blessing for us."
June is Pride Month, and Gee said it seems like this year more than ever Instagram and social media pages like his and Juan's are getting more attention.
For them and others, these profiles are another small, but powerful way to use digital tools to combat negativity around black, queer relationships.
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